Every Woman's Ideal Man

Many women, especially single women,have used various methods to meet the ideal man, which works sometimes. But what is it that really get a woman burning with desire and even will make the first move to get a man's attention.Men are easy to figure out, because they are captured by the physical appearance, If they get a date with a woman and she is intelligent , funny and interesting, then the guy will want to get to know her. Women,on the contrast, they are like going shopping, they take their time to  check out everything before they buy. ,They want to be certain, it is not just based on emotions; they want to  see if they are getting the best bargain. They need a trigger to first see if the guy is datable.And most time they have a complex screening system in their head.So I recognize that some men will also need to know, some characteristics, that get a  woman to have interest in him. Here are 5  areas that most men, if develop, will lure any woman:

# 5: He is a Hard Worker:
Every woman wants a man to be a hard working fellow. She need, to feel that he will find away to provide for himself and others, including her. Many men to day seems to have an underlying importance placed on finding the easy way through something than,  finding a way to hustle  even when things are tough. Ever caring and good man knows that a woman wants him to work hard and do a great job at whatever he does. Men,  women wants you to be an example to the world, by your consistent hard work to earn money. If most men develop this discipline early in life, it will  translate well when they get older in the work force.The bible says, if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially those of his own household, he  has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.  Men develop the habit of working hard, and you will be noticed by women.

#4: Give without complaining:
Solomom, the wisest man that ever lived, said " as for everyman to whom God has given riches and wealth, and given him power to eat, to receive his heritage and rejoice in his labour-It is a gift. We live in a world today, that trains us to think only for #1, but who is number one?
A good man gives his time and his money without complaining, because he gets satisfaction in doing good. Every man should start developing this selflessness by getting involved now. If you don't have money to give, try giving your time.Join an outreach program , Kiwanis,a church, do some thing to volunteer and help others. Do something and give back. You do not always have to take a girl on a date because of what you think you can get from her.   . It is all about helping someone.Maybe the girl you take on a date, , just need someone to talk with and share some frustration, be a good  listener, and stop being concerned about taking her into bed. I guarantee you, if you give her a good time,and spend your money, she will give you what you never ask for. Try giving and do not expect a reward and see what happens.  Also recognize that everything you have(time, talent, and money) is a gift to you from god.What you do with everything god gives you is your gift to him and others..Ask yourself, is your life all about getting or all about giving.The good book said," Do all things without grumbling or questioning. Start giving today more than  you receive, and see how you impact others, especially women.

#3 Be a woman's servant:
The best way to make women fall for you is to let them see you demonstrate unconditional love for another woman-by being a servant.. The kind of love that, make you a" love slave". If you as a man tell your self, i live to serve my woman, because my motivation is to see her smile always.Do simple thinks, like open the door for her,walk her to her car,take her car out for routine service and volunteer to pick up the grocery or vacuum the house, wash the dishes.And while you are at it why not fix the breakfast are dinner instead of going out to eat , especially on weekends.. Your desire should be to find ways to serve your woman.Serving is to do and give your woman the things that make her always smile. The world desperately need's good men who will be good servants to their women. By serving a woman, whether your wife or a friend, and giving her a break from daily chores  from time to time,  you will gain everlasting love and respect by your woman and the world.. Be a servant to your woman,

#2; A good man is a Loving Man:
For most men, their mind set is , if I work and bring home the money, I have done my job.While that is a major part of a man's duty, it is not all. Men have to be more than a paycheck . They are made to fill the emotional needs of a woman-love. Love, does not have to be always physical, most women, are not seeking physical love, they seek the intangible love. It is small things you do, like, surprise her with flowers, some chocolate,a special dinner out, under the moonshine, a walk on the beach, or just sit and listen to her talk about her life and frustration. Just tell her you love her, give her a kiss in the morning before you leave the house and when you get home greet her with a kiss, and do the laundry, stay up with the baby at night, watch a good movie with her, surprise her with a new dress now and then.    The bible said, "Love your wife as Christ love the church". That means to serve when you come home from work. If you can show love by helping with the house hold chores, you are saying i love you,loudly. Your woman, will always, yearn for you. There is a saying, "money cannot buy love". Many men feels that they can buy a woman's love,it is the things you do to demonstrate your love for her that is important.. Solomon, says" set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: For love is strong as death, jealousy, is cruel as the grave, the coals there of, are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame". Men, Solomom, is saying to you, surrender yourself to your woman, one hundred percent and you will be set as a seal upon her heart.

#1: A Good man is a good steward:
 A great man is a great provider, great protector, a great priest. Such a man will stand up and be counted by any woman.One of the greatest role a good steward  does is to pray with the family. Spend time with the family, play with the family, vacation with the family.Quality time with a woman and her children is one of the greatest, love languages. It makes the woman and children  feel secure and loved.A steward, is a manager , caretaker, administrator or trustee. The steward is the person  that effectively and efficiently uses the money and resources that god gives him. So, in many household today, the woman handles the household finance, but a man need wisdom in the area of finance. How ironic is it that the  Motto on United States currency is " In God we Trust". Yet, I am not certain how many men, believe what Solomon says in Proverbs 3:6, "trust in the lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy  paths". In order to prosper and become a great steward, men must walk in obedience , that is walking according to your God given purpose. As a man of god, to be respected by your family and the world, every man must walk in obedience and trust god and his promises, and not logics. Trust God fully with your finance. Men this is the first tenet of effect financial stewardship, partnering with god, putting him first in your income and all other increase in money. It is a test of your faith in God and your love for god and people.Then, you will be the envy and desire of every woman.