The Prophet of 'Doom'


Madness as defined by one of the greatest intellectuals in human history; is doing same thing over and over again yet expecting different results. Sadly this has become the blueprint and legacy upon which the very foundations of our institutions have been built upon. This piece is inspired by the recent lecture delivered by one of the sons of the soil whose exploits as a former governor of the CBN not only drew the ire of those who have built for themselves an empire of ill gotten wealth on the throes of pain of a nation which will eventually come to see the light and truth of his message in the course of fulfilling his patriotic duties; 'The commonwealth of our beloved country is being milked by an insignificant few at the expense of its growth and development.

 "The commonwealth of our beloved country is being milked by an insignificant few at the expense of its growth and development"

His admission about the state of the nation's finances would not only later cost him his job, but he was also to be labeled as a 'Prophet of Doom' as the then administration embarked on its trademark charade of propaganda and mudslinging to ensure that all is swept under the carpet of political melodrama. The truth is to be shrouded in mystery as long as the same hand that grabs in the dark remains a part of the body that wears the crown. Nigerians were once again pulled into the vortex of religious bigotry and tribal sentiments with one camp accusing the other of trying to sabotage its progress and once again the Kansas shuffle was played on us and eventually we looked the other way like speculators enchanted by a magician's sleight of hand. 

The price of our complicity and failure to unite and to fight against the syndicate that has continued to enslave and crush the dreams and potentials of our great nation is evident in the current state of the continued depletion of our foreign reserve, the record decline in the purchasing power of the naira, record levels of unemployment, double digit inflation figures; all indicative of the big R word; Ours is an economy in Recession.

Already there are misguided voices and some elements in the media who have sadly surrendered themselves as tools being used to mislead Nigerians that things got this worse because of the ineptitude of the present government, they will want you believing that things would have been better off if the previous government had remain in power. But what we have failed to realize is that whatever positives or growth witnessed in that said era qualifies as a future mortgage of which we are now paying hence the decline and systemic failure of virtually all sectors. It was a consumption driven economy driven by the excessive spending of hard earned revenue which would have been better used as investment to boost manufacturing, production and stimulate employment.

The recent data released for the second quarter by the NBS shows a growth negative of 2.06% and while economists have forecast a bounce back in 2017, it is expedient to ask ourselves the question; How did we get here? From an economy predicted to be growing at almost same pace as that of China (now the second largest economy in the world) in the 19th century to an economy that can barely pay its own workers not to mention financing its annual budget as we now have to borrow to address deficits. I am not an economic expert so I will not venture into the measures and controls that ought to be or should have been implemented to arrest the steep decline, but i speak also as a son of the soil who truly loves and cherish this great nation and strongly believe that there is light for us at the end of the tunnel if we all can set aside our differences and work towards really making this nation great. It is time to finally get it right, these challenges couldn't have come at a better time when we have a government willing to explore all viable options of diversification.


These are trying and challenging times indeed, but what we need more prophets of doom; individuals who are not afraid to stir the hornet's nest by not telling us what we want to hear but the undiluted truth and ensuring we take into full account the warnings of their epistles. Only then can all the campaign against the institute of corruption and developmental policies be made meaningful if the drain that was the bane of our growth is eventually closed. Like they saying goes; the calm will come after the storm.

Time to Sheath the 'Sword'


Elections are over and the dye had been cast, one would think it is high time we shifted focus on drawing up a roadmap towards good governance to at least give the anxious electorates a glimmer of hope and a promise of greater things to come, but sadly the reverse has been the case as the incessant standoffs between the ruling party and the oppositions threatens the promise of change and our unity as a nation.
The presence of a strong opposition to check and make constructive criticisms of the ruling party is a trademark of a democratic dispensation, but the clog in the wheel is when such criticisms are made out of prejudice, malice and overzealousness on the part of the opposition.
The journey towards greatness in itself can only be achieved when the incumbent and the opposition are able to set aside their differences and partisan interests in order to set this nation on its deserving great pedestal.
It would also be serving to make a point of note to the ruling government that it's party isn't the mouthpiece of the presidency and as such all criticisms of government policies and decisions should not be seen as a skirmish between members of the ruling party and the opposition. For once let's do something in the interest of our great country.

The Pathway to a Sucessful Career


As a student, you might get confused which career option is perfectly suited for you according to your interests and skills as there are hundreds of career options available in every field of study. Every student faces the big question "What next" after their class senior school certificate exams. After these exams the big question arises is which stream to choose? Another question is what career option to choose? Without any guidance of a professional career counsellor you will be left with the suggestions of your parents, feedback from your teachers according to your marks and advice from your friends. But the big question is, Are these suggestions and advices are enough to decide your whole future? It is the point of your career in which you require professional guidance from a reputed career counsellor.
What is career counselling?
Career counselling involves a set of aptitude tests and personality tests that help the career counsellors to analyze the skills and interests of the skill in order to provide the best career advice based on the results of the personality and aptitude tests. As it is a well known fact that everyone one of us have our own strengths and weaknesses, thus, the key to identify the strength hidden within and an individual is done through career counselling.
Career counselling session will help you to recognize the pros and cons of each and every stream and the career options available, thus this session helps you to make an informed choice related to the career. In this scenario of high competition, it has become very important to seek guidance from a qualified and experience career counsellor who can help you in determining your aptitude and potential and suggest you the right career option to opt for. The career counselling session is required to organize your ideas and thoughts and help to boost your confidence and morale. Career counselling with a professional and reputed counsellor can direct you towards a successful career path with immense positive energy.
Take help from an experienced career counsellor
Approaching a career counsellor becomes very important when you are about to choose a career option for yourself, as it will determine your whole future and you have to be very careful while choosing the career path. One wrong decision can end might end you up struggling in the middle and after some time of struggle and interest you might have to switch your career and start over again from the beginning. To avoid such type of conditions, it is advised to you approach a career counsellor to make sure that you is making the right decision.
Choosing a career that is in accordance with your personality and skills it lead to a successful professional career in the future. The main motive of the career counselling is to help you choose the choose a field which is synchronized with your skills and job expectations, Though many schools in India does not offer career counselling facilities to their students, if your school happen to fall in such category, you can take help from an independent counsellor rather than following the crowd.

The Art of Positive Thinking


The idea of right thinking could be one of the more important things you could seek to do during your life. Indeed thinking right thoughts may be one of the things that can offer you the very best out of life. The way that you view a situation could be the difference between finding a huge problem or a massive opportunity. So the importance of thinking in right ways could allow you to get the greatest benefit from your life.
The Power in Correct Thought
If you look at processes in life you will find a variety of ways to achieve the process. Some of these ways will be good some bad, but there will be some which are outstanding. Indeed finding the best way may take a great deal of time and effort, but in order to get the best you have to invest time and effort. Great things can take great effort to achieve so if you truly want to achieve great things you may have to change the way that you look at things. By taking on new approaches you could find that you develop new and better ways of achieving things. So by having different and better thoughts could be the first step in allowing you to find bigger and better opportunities.
The Power of Choice
You have the power to make choices, indeed you are the one who makes decisions in your life. By learning to make better choices you will get better outcomes. The idea of testing is something that could assist you in the process of making better choices. But the main thought is that the more you practice making choices the better you will get. It was found in a study of 500 self-made millionaires that the habit of making quick decisions contributed to their success. Successful people tend to make quicker decisions and also tend to stick to those decisions. So by practicing the habit of making quicker decisions you could find that you may develop greater benefits in your life. Indeed you are the person in charge of your thoughts, hence you are the person in charge of your life.
Making Different Choices for Different Results
It has been said that you can not get different results by taking the same actions. So it would seem lightly that for you to get better results in your life, you will need to change some of the things that you are currently doing. This also could suggest that you will need to first think different thoughts, and try different ideas. So it could be the case that if you think in different ways, you could find that you are on the road to better new results. But the good news is that it is within your power to think different thoughts which can lead to new actions, and new results.
Develop Right Thoughts
So by consciously making an effort everyday to think right thoughts, could be just the thing that you need to lead you to right thinking. Indeed the whole idea of developing right thoughts would indicate that you will need to do work to achieve this. However after you have regularly put in this work you could eventually find that you will reap the rewards of your work and efforts.

An Antidote for Depression


If you are noticing a dip in your mood, there are a variety of things that you can look at and try to work on. Perhaps you are eating more fast food, not working out, have hormonal changes, are taking certain medications, or are hanging out with negative people. All these factors will contribute to a dip in your mood. However, there are other factors that play a role in mood that require you to be honest and open with yourself. It is not always easy fessing up to having a pessimistic outlook, acknowledging that you enjoy throwing yourself a pity party, or becoming aware of the fact that you feel you have lost direction in your life.
Although these areas are not easy to examine, the reality is that they are necessary to look at in order to be true to yourself, find fulfillment, and get that pep in your mood back. Here are 3 areas in your life you can assess when your notice a mood drop:
1. Check your Attitude
A dip in mood could mean a dip in the way that you are seeing your world. With the hecticness of life it is easy to slip into negative thinking at times. But it is also important to catch the bout of pessimism and work through it. In order to work through a negative mood you have to start looking at more of what you do have as opposed to all the things you don't have. Being grateful and aware of all things that you have earned, received and been given is what makes our life fulfilling and upbeat. The more you focus on what you have the more you begin to feel positive about life. You will also notice more opportunities, supports and friendships as you refocus your vision. When checking on your attitude look to see if your focus is more on what you do have or what you don't have.
2. Note Your Ability to be Resilient
Resilience is the ability to bounce back up after life tries to knock you down. If you are noticing that the bouncing back is more like falling and staying down, perhaps your level of resilience is low. While we should all be grateful for each day, the reality is life also delivers trials that don't go unnoticed. When the trials build up and we do not have some sort of release for the stress that builds, we begin to lack the energy (or resilience) to bounce back up after we are hit. In order to increase your resilience, take stressors off your plate. Sit back and look at what is weighing you down in life that you no longer need to carry. Then, take that off your back so you are freer to bounce back when you get knocked down.
To build up your resilience, you can also stay ahead of your challenges. Reflect on some major barriers that could potentially lie ahead of new projects or goals and put a basic plan into place to be prepared for those barriers. This does not mean to let fear rule you as you think about every little detail that could go wrong, but it does mean acknowledging that barriers arise and you can prepare become adaptable and flexible in order to overcome those challenges.
3. Evaluate Your Passion
One of the hardest times in life is when you realize that you have lost a spark. That spark is often referred to as passion and sometimes we lose it in our personal or professional lives. It can be hard reflecting on life at missed opportunities or regrets. But focusing your time on opportunities that you have missed puts your focus in the past. The past is in a time you cannot get back and thus it distracts you from the opportunities in the present. Opportunities are around you each day. In fact, every problem is an opportunity. Opportunities spark passion.
When you have lost passion in your life you may find that you come to two roads. The first road allows you to work to re-spark up passion. Take this time to review or clarify your visions in life or business. Reflecting on why you started a mission or goal and taking a moment to look back at all the hardships you have already made it through might empower you to keep pushing with desire and renewed passion. Rekindling your passion will boost your self-esteem, creative side and generate a whole bunch of happiness.
The second road you may face when you have lost your passion is the road of brand new beginnings. Instead of dwelling on time lost for something that did not work out, channel that energy into working on new passions. Going back to the start line is sometimes the biggest step forward you could ever take. For many people they lose passion in their careers, and do not leave their jobs. If you choose not to leave a situation in your life where passion no longer exists, be sure to search for outside of work passions like taking up certain sports, hobbies or activities that will create passion once more in your life. Creating passion in one sector of your life will rub off in others and give your mood an overall boost.

Fear of Rejection; Dealing With it


You see, achieving your goal isn't so difficult. Putting your mind to it is. So, the first thing you need to do, when trying to reach your goal is – stop just thinking about how you'll maybe do it someday and just go for it. It's as simple as that.
We all reach a point in our lives, when we just have enough of the current situation. Every single being on the planet has been in some sort of a slump. Whether it is relationship, career, health, or anything in between. Also, everyone wants to change their lives at that point.
But guess what? If they are Thinkers, they'll fail. Like in the mother nature, every action brings a reaction, and doing something about achieving your desired goal is no different.
Simply put, if you want to create a change and achieve your goal, you need to be proactive. No change can ever happen, if you just think about it, but never do anything to get a reaction.
For example; if you want to meet girls, you need to go out. No girl will ever come to your doorstep, right? So, you have to create an action of going to the nearby bar, find a couple of girls you like, start chatting with them and choose the one that chooses you. After that, the nature will take care of the rest.
Just like in every other life's situation, the mother nature always takes care of you, if you put an effort. All good things can and will happen, but you have to put them in motion first.
Besides, the result of taking action will be:
Waking up near the person you love
No one wants to wake up in the empty bed, right? Your day needs to begin with a touch of someone you love, looking at you with care and devotion. Your partner lifts up your motivation to get up and try to do your best in life. There are many reasons to try and make something out of yourself, but I can't remember any better than having someone beside you, who wakes you up each and every day, looking at you with eyes, full of love and devotion. If that doesn't motivate you, nothing else will.
Ability to enjoy in the simple moments
Stop caring for the past and the future all the time. Instead, put a little effort to the present and enjoy each moment that comes along. Whether you listen to the sounds of nature, or birds singing, or anything in between; tantalize your senses with simple, yet powerful experiences. You don't need to meditate all the time to feel at peace. Although the meditation is very beneficial for your inner well-being, there are also simple present moments that can make your day in a few seconds. Enjoy in those things and become a part of the present as much as you can.
Breaking the routine
People are creatures of habits. Every day, they do the same things they're used to. Drink coffee, go to work or school, wash the laundry and so on. Those things usually don't make us happy, but at least some of them are necessary. But, how about doing a thing or two that's not a part of your ordinary life? It's not that hard as you might think. Probably the hardest thing here is to step out of your comfort zone and do something you've never done before. It can be anything you can imagine, but it must make you feel excited. Think about the things you'd love to try, pick one of them for each and every day and go for it.
There is no such thing as impossible goal. It's just the right action, which creates a reaction. Simple as that. Now, start dating and good luck!

Every Woman's Ideal Man


Many women, especially single women,have used various methods to meet the ideal man, which works sometimes. But what is it that really get a woman burning with desire and even will make the first move to get a man's attention.Men are easy to figure out, because they are captured by the physical appearance, If they get a date with a woman and she is intelligent , funny and interesting, then the guy will want to get to know her. Women,on the contrast, they are like going shopping, they take their time to  check out everything before they buy. ,They want to be certain, it is not just based on emotions; they want to  see if they are getting the best bargain. They need a trigger to first see if the guy is datable.And most time they have a complex screening system in their head.So I recognize that some men will also need to know, some characteristics, that get a  woman to have interest in him. Here are 5  areas that most men, if develop, will lure any woman:

# 5: He is a Hard Worker:
Every woman wants a man to be a hard working fellow. She need, to feel that he will find away to provide for himself and others, including her. Many men to day seems to have an underlying importance placed on finding the easy way through something than,  finding a way to hustle  even when things are tough. Ever caring and good man knows that a woman wants him to work hard and do a great job at whatever he does. Men,  women wants you to be an example to the world, by your consistent hard work to earn money. If most men develop this discipline early in life, it will  translate well when they get older in the work force.The bible says, if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially those of his own household, he  has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.  Men develop the habit of working hard, and you will be noticed by women.

#4: Give without complaining:
Solomom, the wisest man that ever lived, said " as for everyman to whom God has given riches and wealth, and given him power to eat, to receive his heritage and rejoice in his labour-It is a gift. We live in a world today, that trains us to think only for #1, but who is number one?
A good man gives his time and his money without complaining, because he gets satisfaction in doing good. Every man should start developing this selflessness by getting involved now. If you don't have money to give, try giving your time.Join an outreach program , Kiwanis,a church, do some thing to volunteer and help others. Do something and give back. You do not always have to take a girl on a date because of what you think you can get from her.   . It is all about helping someone.Maybe the girl you take on a date, , just need someone to talk with and share some frustration, be a good  listener, and stop being concerned about taking her into bed. I guarantee you, if you give her a good time,and spend your money, she will give you what you never ask for. Try giving and do not expect a reward and see what happens.  Also recognize that everything you have(time, talent, and money) is a gift to you from god.What you do with everything god gives you is your gift to him and others..Ask yourself, is your life all about getting or all about giving.The good book said," Do all things without grumbling or questioning. Start giving today more than  you receive, and see how you impact others, especially women.

#3 Be a woman's servant:
The best way to make women fall for you is to let them see you demonstrate unconditional love for another woman-by being a servant.. The kind of love that, make you a" love slave". If you as a man tell your self, i live to serve my woman, because my motivation is to see her smile always.Do simple thinks, like open the door for her,walk her to her car,take her car out for routine service and volunteer to pick up the grocery or vacuum the house, wash the dishes.And while you are at it why not fix the breakfast are dinner instead of going out to eat , especially on weekends.. Your desire should be to find ways to serve your woman.Serving is to do and give your woman the things that make her always smile. The world desperately need's good men who will be good servants to their women. By serving a woman, whether your wife or a friend, and giving her a break from daily chores  from time to time,  you will gain everlasting love and respect by your woman and the world.. Be a servant to your woman,

#2; A good man is a Loving Man:
For most men, their mind set is , if I work and bring home the money, I have done my job.While that is a major part of a man's duty, it is not all. Men have to be more than a paycheck . They are made to fill the emotional needs of a woman-love. Love, does not have to be always physical, most women, are not seeking physical love, they seek the intangible love. It is small things you do, like, surprise her with flowers, some chocolate,a special dinner out, under the moonshine, a walk on the beach, or just sit and listen to her talk about her life and frustration. Just tell her you love her, give her a kiss in the morning before you leave the house and when you get home greet her with a kiss, and do the laundry, stay up with the baby at night, watch a good movie with her, surprise her with a new dress now and then.    The bible said, "Love your wife as Christ love the church". That means to serve when you come home from work. If you can show love by helping with the house hold chores, you are saying i love you,loudly. Your woman, will always, yearn for you. There is a saying, "money cannot buy love". Many men feels that they can buy a woman's love,it is the things you do to demonstrate your love for her that is important.. Solomon, says" set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: For love is strong as death, jealousy, is cruel as the grave, the coals there of, are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame". Men, Solomom, is saying to you, surrender yourself to your woman, one hundred percent and you will be set as a seal upon her heart.

#1: A Good man is a good steward:
 A great man is a great provider, great protector, a great priest. Such a man will stand up and be counted by any woman.One of the greatest role a good steward  does is to pray with the family. Spend time with the family, play with the family, vacation with the family.Quality time with a woman and her children is one of the greatest, love languages. It makes the woman and children  feel secure and loved.A steward, is a manager , caretaker, administrator or trustee. The steward is the person  that effectively and efficiently uses the money and resources that god gives him. So, in many household today, the woman handles the household finance, but a man need wisdom in the area of finance. How ironic is it that the  Motto on United States currency is " In God we Trust". Yet, I am not certain how many men, believe what Solomon says in Proverbs 3:6, "trust in the lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy  paths". In order to prosper and become a great steward, men must walk in obedience , that is walking according to your God given purpose. As a man of god, to be respected by your family and the world, every man must walk in obedience and trust god and his promises, and not logics. Trust God fully with your finance. Men this is the first tenet of effect financial stewardship, partnering with god, putting him first in your income and all other increase in money. It is a test of your faith in God and your love for god and people.Then, you will be the envy and desire of every woman.